Hi Nick,
With no warnings to speak of, this summer I was diagnosed with highly aggressive muscle invasive BC. The waiting to find out what’s going to happen is, let’s be honest, totally hellish at times. I’m due to get a neobladder sometime in early September. The main thing is to stay positive! You’ll do great…, and the people in this group are all wonderful. Stay active with the group. It’s the best thing I’ve done for both myself and my husband.
Good luck!