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August 2, 2013 at 3:11 pm #7875
Kit
ParticipantDear all, just wonder if anybody could share the experience of how to make sure the connector between the ostomy bag and the night bag are perfectly installed.
Kit.
August 5, 2013 at 11:54 pm #15970KIOWA
ParticipantWell, not having having to do that myself I can only suggest J.B. Weld or super glue or possibly duct tape. that being said, I really do wish you well. I know others on the site can provide much better advice (obviously).
Kiowa
August 6, 2013 at 3:45 am #15974Kit
ParticipantThank you Kiowa. I guess I was just paniking at the early stage. I am hoping we will be okay with more practice. I also found the tube paste really helps to secure the base plate. My biggest concern now is that my mom had infection yesterday after I encouraged her for a short walk (at our backyard), infection is treated by antibiotics but now she blamed me and the walk! She refused to move at all and stayed in bed for 23.5 hours the whole day! Should I just take it easy and let her? But I cannot convince myself that not moving is good for her!!
August 6, 2013 at 3:05 pm #15975KIOWA
Participantwell certainly do not blame yourself. And as for activity it is vital. Inactivity especially being in bed for long periods and lead to muscle atrophy, respiratory problems including pnemonia, and a variety of other p-roblems, especially bowl problems. I think she should be encouraged to be as active as she can be within her abilities. She may not understand it, but she will feel better. Of course when a person feels their worse that is when they need to be more mobile. You did the right thing.
My best to you and your Mom
Ki
August 6, 2013 at 4:14 pm #15976Greg
ParticipantKit:
The infection is something that almost everyone experiences at some degree of severity at some point in their recovery from an RC. Many on this site can attest to having one, including me. It’s no excuse for lying in bed and she needs to keep getting up, getting dressed and trying to make the best of feeling like she’s been hit by a truck. In no way did the walk start it or even contribute to it. You are her best friend and at some point she will appreciate it. So try to let her comments slide off and do not take them personally. She feels horrible at times, out of control, forever changed, emotionally raw and wondering with uncertainty about the future. She’s got a great future if she does the right things now, one of which is to get out of the sack and get her feet on the ground!She’s in early days yet and though she feels like it is taking a long time (it will), she will feel much better the more she walks and the more she can focus on others and not herself. If I had not gone through it, I would have no credibility. But I have been through it and can assure you it is true.
You are doing a great service to her. Bless you.
August 8, 2013 at 10:42 pm #15990Kit
ParticipantHi Greg, Kiowa,
Thanks for your encouragement. Mom is still pretty reluctant to move although I have explained to her a thousand times, I will keep trying! At Sunnybrook we got all the nurses and volunteers (one of them is student physiotherapist and recommended a set of light exercises my mom can do) to help us and Mom would nod her head and promise to move and then will, like a child, refuse to do anything when there are no other people around! She does develop thrombosis and is prescribed blood thinning medication for a month. You guys’ words go give me the courage and energy to move forward!! Thanks again!!
Kit.
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