Hi. My husband had his bladder cancer diagnosis a year ago. No chemo, no radiation, he ended up having a full prostatectomy a few months later.
We are very lucky and grateful that he had a cancer all-clear after that — but that doesn’t mean the major changes are easy to handle. Dealing with the urostomy bag, intimacy issues, and having the patience to realize we both have “rights to ask for things” – even though his cancer card will always trump a caregiver card. That’s us.
Anyone else relate?