Terry, I had this very same decision to make several months ago. After much research, deliberations and my doctor advising that I was a candidate for a neo, I choose to go with a new neo-bladder. I’m still fairly young and the results of having a neo seemed to be the type of diversion closest to normal, i.e. most likely no external appliances required, urinate through your urethra (same as before). I’m 3 ½ months post surgery and so far I am very happy with my decision.
Whatever type of diversion you choose, you will learn to make it work for you and you will adjust to your new life. Good luck with your decision!
Glenn
