Jackie has a good point, Jeanne. And it really is sad because betrayal probably is the worst ty0pe of abuse. But bankruptcy judges likely will still consider the fact that he made a verbal contract, which while difficult sometimes to prove, is still a binding contract. I think the first priority of a bankruptcy court would be making sure that you are protected. But you still need an attorney then you need to kick his butt! My older boy has had it tough being without a job, he and his wofe. And they have 4 kids. While we have given him money, we never attached our resources and he never asked us to do that. I would rather just pay off his house than to give him the burden pf having to pay it off. I’ve had patients in tough spots. I only asked that they pay me back when and if they could. Some didn’t, most, almost all did. But there was no occasion for betrayal for which I am thankful.. One who went out and bought a new Mercedes never paid me, some paid me with cookies and home made things. That meant more than money. I really believe things will work out for you. I dkon;t know how it works in California but in Texas your home cannot be taken away except of course by IRS and the bank. I consider both on my “evil” list.
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