Hi Heather:
I have read your posts several times and my heart breaks for you and your family. Not knowing what to do in times like this is very normal. Sometimes there are just no words. You have received some great suggestions so far. I can only add that I have found that journaling has helped me in times where the right verbal words were just not there.
You and your family are in my prayers. Be kind and gentle to yourself and just “be” and live and enjoy the moments.
Hugs
Susan
