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Hi Colleen. My answer would be a resounding “yes”. I was aware of one or two of the issues that could arise, but had no concept of just how much time and energy would be involved in healing and regaining strength – and I have had major heart surgery before. I suppose even in life saving surgeries there is a measure of salesmanship in doctors’ approaches. They love doing surgery and they know it is the answer to the problem – and it is! But knowing the pitfalls would be so helpful. The more people I speak with the more I appreciate that when something happens unexpectedly, like infection or pain or constipation or low energy, everyone feels like they are the only one this has happened to. It is unexpected for them, but it is not unexpected at all in reality since most people go through some of it at least. Of course, that is one of the supreme benefits of Bladder Cancer Canada, the ability to share by e-mail, phone or even a visit, and encourage, educate, motivate and inspire each other.
All the best in your meeting. That’s a great opportunity to share “the rest of the story”, as Paul Harvey used to say.
Greg