I had my first BC when I was 44. A large single tumor. But my uro surgeon had it biopsied and gave me the results and explained them to me. He never said “don’t worry”. that was a stuped thing for a doctor to tell a patient. My veterinarian doesn’t even make comments like that. My doc insisted on quarterly cystoscopies, then in two years every 6 months and then once a year forever. Good thing too because more BC arrive 18 years later. good thing I had those annual cystos. that is how they were found. Your doc has a responsibility and obligation to fully inform you and your husband about this. Please get all the records. I would suggest a second opinion on the biopsy.
Kiowa
